David was moved by gratitude to think about God’s character and motives. Sadly, the occasions that lead to my questions about God reveal a very different attitude. When I ask questions it’s not really about needing answers, but about demanding my way.Read More
My response to what was outside my house was based on the condition of what was inside my house - the windows. Isn't it the same way with our emotional response to our lives? We miss the beauty that is right in front of us, because the lens we are looking through is not clear.Read More
God invites us to take time to reconnect with him and with one another, and to rediscover the joy of moving at a slower pace. Yes, there is obedience and trust involved in God's direction to take a sabbath. But it is meant to be a gift, not a burden. Rest renews us. Time away from our tasks helps us gain perspective.Read More
As an introvert, I don't always find it easy to break through the barrier between 'stranger' and 'acquaintance', or move from 'customer' to 'friend'. But life sure feels sweeter when I do. Maybe you've observed it too, as you've seen a face brighten when you walk through the door. The simple art of noticing can make all the difference.Read More
There are a lot of situations where a Christ follower should gladly put others first. But when it comes time to take responsibility for a problem, to apologize, or to be willing to improve our attitude, I think we have permission to jump up and say, "Me first!"Read More
We don't have to make headlines to make a difference. And we don't need to look very far for important work to do. Each of us has a ready-made place in the ministry of presence. If you are unsure, ask God to show you who needs your love and care. What feels like a small gesture to meet their need may be the biggest thing you do today.Read More
Our self-images are hostage to the big thumbs-up in the blue circle. If we don’t receive enough of them, we begin to question our performance. This can quickly lead to doubting our value.Read More
Out of the blue on a sunny day, the right (or, really, wrong) combination of conditions can turn things upside down in our world.
Fear grips us as we realize we can’t head off the storm and we can’t outrun it. It will blow through our lives, and at the time we don’t know its strength or the damage it will leave behind.Read More
Birthdays, graduations, weddings. These milestones remind us that stepping into the new means leaving behind the old. Something precious is past, and will not return. We find ourselves asking how it went by so quickly. With this intense awareness of the passage of time, it feels like life is slipping through our fingers.
How can we slow things down, hold on a little longer?
Lonely fellow travelers cross our path not only in airports, but also in doctors’ waiting rooms, the checkout line at the grocery store, and the adjoining office cubicle. When we choose to love them, we are walking in our Savior’s footsteps. (This post is also appearing today at wwww.incourage.me Please check out this wonderful site that offers uplifting daily devotional pieces.)Read More
When we gather around one another, and help each other grow in grace, we are practicing community and discipling. No matter what our role or calling, we need this. We are not meant to do mom life, or any part of the Christian life, in isolation.Read More
“It’s my fault” may be some of the most powerful words we ever speak. As we take care of that plank in our own eyes, we build bridges with those we care about and give them a safe place to deal with their sawdust.Read More
…healthy connection has be in place before correction can be well received. Those we feel obligated to counsel have to believe without a doubt that we are rooting for them to succeed. The underlying message must be “I believe in you, and the two of us can take on this issue together”.Read More
Lack of rest is tied to lack of peace. It is hard to still our bodies and our minds, if we believe that our well-being or that of people we love depends on us.Read More
By God's good design, we are all wired for relationship. That drive to connect leads us to seek acceptance for who we are, what we do, and what we contribute.Read More
What happens when we fail to live up to a standard we hold? We feel guilt and shame, and we try to hide. It's true for my housecleaning. It's also true for so much more.Read More
The rasp of velcro being pulled apart announced the reappearance of "the Boot", as it is known at our house. Ten days ago I had to strap an air cast on my leg again, after a painful ankle sprain. This is a fairly regular event for me, due either to weak ankles or my tendency to move too fast.Read More
There is power in simply showing up. The condition of our clothes, our hairdo and makeup, our main dish, or our house does not matter nearly as much as the condition of our hearts.Read More